Is pleasing everybody even possible? Maybe no, so, focus on the vibes, in your tribe.
Water What Positive Vibes You Do Have Around You.
One thing about life, (oh the irony), is duality. It is inescapable. Therefore, you should focus on the vibes, in your tribe.
There is nobody coming to save you (but you) at best, you can expect some occasional support and vibes from those within your tribe.
Nevertheless, the lionshare of your life, is a reflection of you. If your life is happy, chances are, you’re a happy person. Likewise if your life is organized, fun, etc, etc. Therefore, with you being you, chances are you have very unique vibes that some people are going to love and others, are going to hate.
All you need to do (as previously mentioned) is follow Ricardo Drue’s advice and focus on the love!!!! As per the law of attraction as outlined by Rhonda Byrne in The Secret, you will attract more of whatever you focus on. When you focus on the (positive) vibes from your tribe i.e. those that resonate with your energy, the vibes will multiply even more. Which means the vibes in the tribe are healthy and trending in the right direction.
Simultaneously, those outside of your tribe will be hating too. However, if you make the mistake of focusing on the vibes outside of your tribe. You will be making a double mistake. By inviting those with negative energy to have their influence amplified as you water them with attention, again, as outlined in Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret. Furthermore, while you are paying this other tribe attention, your own tribe is suffering due to your inattention of it.
Arguably, life is about finding out what your passions are, pursuing them and building friendships with those who share the same passions as you.
If The Struggle Is Real, Why Should It Be Lonely Too?
Moreover, a valid question for us to all ask ourselves is: are we meant to save the world by carrying it on our shoulders (being all, to all)? Contrarily, are we meant to contribute by taking care of the vibes in our tribe? Honestly speaking, maybe we are meant to find a balance between both of these extremes? One thing is for sure, it is probably a really bad idea to neglect your most likely source of support for too long. In other words, it is almost certainly a great idea to pay attention to the vibes in your tribe.
You are you. Meanwhile there are 8.2 Billion people on the planet. You know what that means right? It means you are exclusive, there is only but so much of you to go around.
Therefore your vibes, in your tribe, will always be priceless. A lot of people nowadays, are follow fashion. Trying to jump on a bandwagon after the bandwagon is popular but for this very reason, such people’s relevance is relatively low. You on the other hand are in a different category. If you are genuinely engaging with the vibes in your true tribe. It means you are relevant to that tribe during good and bad times. Again, that is what makes your value to your tribe priceless.
Consequently, there should be no reason for your to ever swim upstream. On the contrary, when you find your tribe, relationships should be defined by interdependence and synergy. That, is the kinda vibes that lets you know you’ve found your tribe.
No one is meant to be alone. Cell phones are proof, that human beings are meant to live together. Arguably, the fact that we all have at least one cell phone, is a silent admission of our interdependence. Moreover, life is too short to waste energy on what you dislike.
Instead of doing that, focus on what you love. Attract those who feel the same and focus on taking care of the vibes in your tribe. That, is a far more rewarding use of your energy and vibes. If you doubt that, just ask your tribe.
Few, if any will be able to love you like you. Your first job is to love yourself. After that, the best you can hope for is to hold a vibe with your tribe. Happy vibes, happy tribe.
