The Best Thing About Being In A Relationship
The Best Thing About Being In A Relationship is having that one person that you can call your own.
In a Non toxic way. Having that one person that belongs to you and only you is fulfilling. There are many types of love in this world. Patriotism – the love of country. Sisterly or brotherly love – the love you feel for your friends or siblings. There is the love you may feel for your region (Island Love), Humanity or the Spiritual love you may feel for God if you are a believer. All of these different types of love are rewarding and beautiful.
However, there is nothing like have that one person that you love, to love, in the maritial sense. Whether you are married or not. Having that special person in a relationship that you can always give the best of yourself and pour your love into. Who, is always there, in return, pouring the best of themselves and their love, into you, is what life is truly all about.
Everybody Needs Love
Having a best friend is cool. However, having your best friend and lover all rolled into one person is better. That is the dream!!!! That is what life is really all about. A love life like this is that rare Unicorn, that Pot of Gold and the end of the Rainbow – that some people (rightfully) search their whole lives to find.
In this Capitalistic world in which we live. We are all out here seeking to get to the bag. Seeking to get right to the money. Which may at least partially explain why loneliness has been on the rise around the world. Success is success, no matter how you look at it.
However, the real win, the real thing that completes us and makes us feel whole is finding true love. After all, once you have secured the bag. That financial power should be able to help you win in love too. Admittedly, money is unable to buy love but it can make one more attractive and lead a lifestyle that puts you on a path to finding your significant other too. Money can never by love but, it definitely does impact it.
Nevertheless, provided you live in a place with a good economy. (Or even if you lack this). Attaining a good education and developing skills that are both lucrative and in high demand. Should mean that success career wise and financial stability, eventually, is a given!
Finding true love though can be much harder. Sometimes the fact you are a catch and have it all together can actually make it harder to find love because potential suitors may feel you’re on a different level from them.
Self Love – The Law – All Single People Must Obey.
Also, sometimes the right people have been in the wrong situations. Which means that when you meet them, the healing and growth that they need to do to be ready for you means that the timing for the two of you is wrong. Nevertheless, the law that all single people should live by is self love. By law, all single people should resolve to find the love within themselves, that they hope to eventually find from someone else too.
Life is too short to be waiting for someone else to love you. It is imperative that, in the mean time, whilst no one is there to give you the love that you deserve, you preoccupy yourself with loving you. That, truly is your best bet. Trust life, trust the Universe and move in time with the Universe’s timing.
When single, take it as a priority task for you to love yourself, the very best you can. When you are with someone that loves you completely, you love on them completely too. With them completely loving on you, while you completely love on them – leaving each other both feeling, complete.
Life is all about love. Get it and give it however you can but always remember to start with yourself first. After that, give love to everybody else that you can, friends, family, your life’s purpose, your community, humanity, a higher power if you are a believer.
Relationship Goals
If you are also blessed enough to have that significant other to give you’re all too and receive their all from – congratulations. You are living the dream and are relationship goals.
Starting a family of your own with the person you love is the only way you can level up and go even higher.
Whoever, you are, where ever you are at, appreciate what you got. Gratitude, is proven to enhance quality of life. Finally, as mentioned in Rhonda Byrne’s classic, The Secret, the more grateful you are, is the more you attract things to be grateful for into your life.
Which is why Reggae Superstar Koffee is right, gratitude is a must.
